theonlycheeze asked: Thanks Mel, you're always trying to cheer me up and I appreciate it immensely. Honestly though, I don't think he'll ever change. It's hard for him to change, at this point. That's just who he is, and I just have to deal with it. I feel kinda dumb about posting this on Tumblr, but I guess if I didn't have any other outlet for this stuff, it would be worse. Even if it does ruin the usual "super positive guy" perception most of my friends generally assume of me. Eh, life goes on I guess :)
no problem :) yeah I understand though :| and don’t feel dumb at all, it’s never good to keep these things bottled up. unfortunately, even though they love us, a lot of parents don’t know how to be parents in the sense that they don’t know how to express their love in a healthy matter because of the way they were raised or because of whatever happened to them in their past. vicious cycle, I totally understand you. what’s important tho, is to not follow in their footsteps once we have our own kids. But yes, life does go on !